As I have said in the past, this subject is important enough to warrant it’s own series. So, I will be doing a quick series, as I have time this week, covering just the very basics.
Our dance is taking place in the evening, but is not a formal “ball”. We’re doing a combination of English and American country and square dancing, with very simple live music (provided by yours truly, on fiddle, and Kyle on guitar).
So, here’s what I would recommend for, first, responding to the invitation, and, second, how to choose what to wear:
R.S.V.P. – As always, when an invitation says “R.S.V.P.”, without any qualifications (e.g. if it doesn’t say “with regrets only”, etc.), you should respond on or before the date given with whether or not you hope to attend. If you can’t make it, the host or hostess needs to know. If you are planning to come, they still need to know. You get the idea. 🙂
What to Wear – Events (even, specifically, dances) come in all shapes and sizes, but I’ll speak to this one in particular. This is not a formal event, so wearing a ball gown would be overdressing… by a lot. This is more of a barn dance. However, dancing in a barn does not imply that wearing your farm chore clothes and boots is okay.
Gentlemen, if it is possible, please refrain from wearing heavy chore boots (or anything similar). If you want to wear boots, riding boots, and such, are lighter weight and will be much easier/safer to dance in.
Ladies, wear shoes that you are comfortable in. If you can’t wear high heels comfortably (and without endangering your ankles and the toes of other dancers), please don’t wear them to the dance… Or, just remove them before getting on the dance floor.
Flip flops, and other shoes that slide off easily, should not be worn while dancing.
Dress comfortably, but nicely.
Gentlemen, wear shirts with collars, and avoid pants or shirts with stains/holes, etc.
Ladies, pay special attention to your tops: while dancing, you will be stooping (so be aware of those necklines!), as well as reaching up high (so hemlines should be checked).
The point is not to stress about your clothing, but wear something that is comfortable for both you and the mind of those around you.
- Perfume/Cologne, etc.
You will be in close contact with many people throughout the evening. Please don’t wear strong scents, for our sakes. 🙂